Weight Loss Education

Losing weight isn’t just about losing weight. The mental and emotional aspects are just as, if not more, important than the physical nature of weight loss. At every turn in my journey, I have learned something about health and nutrition, but I also learn new things about myself.

Understanding how I function, and applying it to life has proven to be very valuable. Each day, I learn how my body reacts to different foods. This is a very important observation. If you can pay close enough attention to cause and effect, you will be equipped to make better food choices.

I’m starting to get a pretty good grasp on nutritional value in foods. To me, having a firm understanding of this is like getting a weight loss diploma. With nutritional knowledge, all weight loss goals can be accomplished. I learn something new everyday about calorie density, sodium intake, grams of fat and so on.

This knowledge has lead to great food buying choices at the grocery store. Now that we make good decisions at the store, we no longer have crap food in our home. This is another point of education for me. I’ve learned that having good foods at home, its much easier to healthy. Its very easy to grab crap food if crap food is close by and is easy to eat.

One of the greatest things I have learned about myself is that of fighting temptation. I am tempted day in and day out. The thought of going to the gas station and getting a Snickers is always present. I’ve learned that if I fight that temptation until its gone, I can then tell myself “see, you are ok without it” and my day goes on. After a few of those episodes, the temptation for that particular item diminishes over time.

The more I learn about myself, the greater my chances for weight loss success. As I write this, I am down 14 pounds in 1 month 6 days.

Be Well. Be Active. Feel Great.
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A Vicious Cycle

I did it again. I kicked ass during the week and blew up during the weekend. I seem, to be stuck in this vicious cycle. I looked in the mirror this morning and had an honest conversation with myself. Do I really want to lose weight and be healthy? I told myself “yes”, but my weekend actions don’t support that desire. Do I really want it? If I did, I wouldn’t stray off the path on Saturdays and Sundays. I tell myself that I want to do it, but I am not showing myself that I can.

This weekend will be different. I really do want this. I will prove it to myself. I will be determined. Documenting that fact here is useless, unless I go out and do it. I could give a list of excuses why I fall apart, but that too is useless. I have no excuse.

Self-assessments work well for me because I am good at being brutally honest with myself. I had a tough conversation with myself this morning, but its what I needed. I will re-visit this topic next Monday and I know the tone will be different. I will break the cycle and be proud of myself for doing so.

Be Well. Be Active. Feel Great.
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Planning For Success

One night , my wife and I were discussing how we can keep ourselves motivated to continue on the weight loss journey and not fall back into bad habits. We started to list things we were going to do to remove eating temptations, with the idea that if we removed bad foods from our hone, we wouldn’t have anything to be tempted by.

Our first plan of attack is to not bring crap food into the house. We will not be buying girl scout cookies, cookie dough, butter braids, chocolate bars or any other junk food the neighborhood kids might be selling. It’s gonna be tough turning the kids away without a sale, but it’s something we must do for us.

This lead to writing down other planning activities, all geared at helping us achieve our weight loss goals. This includes weekly meal planning and time management planning for workouts. Will, desire and determination might be enough to succeed at weight loss, but why not give myself an even better chance? Why not prepare and plan? It can only help. Like the old saying goes “if you fail to plan, you plan to fail”.

We have been doing much better in our planning of meals and activities in the last few weeks and it has made a huge difference. Its nice to wake up in the morning and have a plan already laid out, and not running around like a mad man trying to figure out my day. While it might seem nominal, it has made a tremendous impact on my day-to-day routines.

There have been days where the plan I laid out had to be adjusted. And that’s ok. I don’t want to plan myself to death. My daily plan is a general guideline of what I’m going to eat, when I’m going to workout etc. Life gets in the way and I must adapt. Not adapting is what got me to where I am now.

Try planning your meals and workout time a week out, see if it helps. Plan for the future; don’t buy girl scout cookies!

Be Well. Be Active. Feel Great.
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Taking Responsibility

On my way home from work last night, I asked myself “Why am I overweight?” I immediately pointed the finger at several reasons why. My parents didn’t teach me good eating behaviors when I was a kid, the vitamins I take don’t work well enough, the diet I was on was too hard to stick to, the gym is too crowded. Blah Blah Blah. I could have rattled off thousands of reasons why someone else made me overweight. Then it hit me like a kick in the nuts.

I AM THE REASON I AM OVERWEIGHT

There is not another soul on the planet that made me overweight. I am to blame. I could continue to blame others, but that will get me nowhere. I did this to myself by not taking care of myself, not eating properly and not working out. I DID IT.

I continued to think about this for a few hours and it felt good to take responsibility for my actions. When I finally convinced myself that I was to blame, I started to think about how to correct past actions. The answer is easy…I have to fix it. There is not another soul, pill or institution on this planet that will lose weight for me. No one. Just me. It feels good to know that my weight loss rests on my own shoulders to achieve. I don’t have to depend on anyone to achieve my goals. Its all on me. I like it that way. I got myself into this mess, I’ll get myself out of this mess.

Once I understood that the blame and the reward belongs to me, its easier to tighten the shoelaces, roll up the sleeves and get to work. Fixing what I’ve broke. Take responsibility for your actions and take the appropriate steps to correct it. All you need is you!

Be Well. Be Active. Feel Great.
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Goal Evaluation

One of the most powerful, yet least discussed, weight loss tool is a list of goals. A goals list should be a list of anything you want to accomplish.

I have two goal lists, one for short-term goals and one for long-term goals. The short-term list is a working/living document that changes frequently when I accomplish one or when I need to add one. These are goals to accomplish in a day (commonly referred to as a to-do list), a week and even a month. If they go past a month, they get put onto the long-term list. My long-term list is broken out my 6 month and 12 month goals. The 6 month goal list is really what I am shooting for and my benchmark for success. , while the 12 month goals are more lofty.

My goals list is personal. They are my goals. They don’t get shared with anyone, wife excepted. It helps that my wife knows my goals. She helps push me to accomplish my goals. She is my partner in crime.

It helps me when I write down my goals and look at them often. When they are written down, they are tangible. They are real. Knowing what my goals are and how to accomplish them is important. Just as important, is the practice of reviewing my goals.

From time to time, I take a look back at the results and take a few moments to review what goals I accomplished and what goals I missed. Its easy to look at the goals accomplished and celebrate the victory (which is important and something I wrote about here). But the tough part comes in reviewing the goals in which I missed the mark. Its easy to dismiss them or to keep pushing them out, but I have honest conversations with myself. Why did I fail? What factors contributed to the failure? What could I have done better or different to accomplish that goal? What will I change to make it happen in the future?

These are important questions I ask myself when I fail so I can learn. So I can get better. So I can achieve. How do I know if I can do better if I don’t know what I did wrong? These are tough conversations to have with myself, but they are necessary. Did I fail becasue of an uncontrollable external factor? Sometimes this happens, but most of the time its because I didn’t go out and get it. I didn’t push myself. I got lazy. I made excuses. I flat out didn’t do it. These are most likely the causes of my failures. It helps when I recognize that in myself, vow to get better and then go out and make it happen.

When you create a feedback circle for yourself, you make yourself better. Write down your goals, stick to them and accomplish them. If you don’t accomplish them, figure out why and get back at it. Don’t beat yourself up too much, that’s counterproductive. Just know that you can do better and then be better!

Be Well. Be Active. Feel Great.
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Getting Active

I love working out…when I’m at the gym. Getting to the gym is the hard part for me. Its very difficult for me to get motivated to get off my but and drive to the gym. Once I’m there, I love it and usually have a great workout. For me to get some sort of workout on a day-to-day basis, I have to create an activity and not think about the monotony of treadmills or bench presses that are always present at the gym.

I’ve found that going on a walk or a quick bike ride is just as rewarding as a session at the gym. It may even be more rewarding cause I am walking or riding bikes with my wife and we can enjoy each others company. I also enjoy it more because it gives my brain, not just my body, greater stimulation. I’m outdoors, I hear the city all around me. I see things that I could never see being inside the gym.

For me, its more about the environment that I’m in and not as much about the physical activity. Lifting weights and jogging on the treadmill might be a better choice for exercise but walking in my neighborhood or taking a leisurely stroll on my bike is better for my brain, in addition to the physical stimulus.

Being active is an important part of weight loss, but you need to enjoy it for it to become a habit and part of your lifestyle. If, like me,  you can’t get motivated to go to the gym, consider other forms of activity:

  • Walk around the block
  • Go on a bike ride
  • Play frisbee in the park
  • Play tennis
  • Shoot baskets
  • Play with the dog in the backyard
  • Attend free bootcamps like It Burns Joe Fitness (if you are in the Denver Area)

It doesn’t really matter what form of exercise you do, the bottom line is to be active.

Be well. Be active. Feel great.

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The Weekend Downfall

If you have ever tried to lose weight, you know how hard it is to keep on the right track during the weekend. BBQ’s, parties, golf outings all make it very difficult to stay on track.I am no different. I fell of the wagon a little bit this weekend. The wheels didn’t completely come off, but I strayed from my path. I had less focus, and I’m not proud of it.

Why is it so easy to eat right, workout and be motivated during the week and then lose all progress during the weekend? I’ve realized that to be truly successful, I need to change from this being a diet, to being a lifestyle change. I need to tell my friends “no” when they ask to go to the bar. I need to limit my beer intake when I play golf. I need to ask for a side a fruit instead of french fries at the restaurant. It comes down to desire and will power.

I reflected on my weekend and I was a little angry with myself. Why did I let temptation get the best of me? I have no answer to this. Something good has come from me being angry at myself. I now know that I want it. I want it bad. If I wasn’t angry at myself for a bad weekend, I wouldn’t feel like it was important to me. Since my feelings are so strong about a bad weekend, I confirmed to myself that losing weight and being healthy is important to me. Its worth putting up a fight.

Will power.
Determination.
Focus.

Those words are so easy to write down; so hard to apply. But I want this. I must do this. I will do this.

Be well. Feel great.

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What Calorie Counting Has Taught Me

There are thousands of methods to dieting. Just ask anyone you know and they will tell you their favorite way of dieting. Better yet, go to your local book store and look at the number of diet books on the shelf. They funny thing is, they all pretty much boil down to one fundamental principle: YOU MUST BURN MORE CALORIES THAN YOU CONSUME. Read that again. The only tried and true method to losing weight is to burn more calories than you consume. It’s a simple principle. Burn 3,500 more calories than you consume and you’ve lost a pound. To me, keeping caloric intake levels in check is the appropriate way to lose weight.

I’ve been using an app on my iPhone called LoseIt! to track my calories for almost a month now. I started on Juse 23, 2010 and have lost about 8 pounds since then. I speak to quite a few people who don’t understand how I can track calories for everything I eat. They also have a perception that people who count calories are hungry all the time.

In the short time that I’ve been counting every calorie, I have learned a few things:

  1. Counting calories is easy. Easier than people think. There are numerous apps and websites that help. Almost everything has a nutrition label that you can gather information from.
  2. Average portion sizes are HUGE. When you count calories, you understand that the size of a portion at a restaurant is enormous. I really don’t need to be eating that much.
  3. Measuring food is a tedious, but very important and beneficial.
  4. Eating three square meals while counting calories will result in you not sticking with it. Its way too easy to eat a lot of calories at once when you eat only three times a day. I eat a decent size breakfast, a decent size lunch and a decent size dinner. The key is to eat smart and healthy snacks throughout the day. Fruit, nuts and snack bars are my favorites.
  5. When you count calories, you are actually getting nutritional education. You start to learn what is good for you and what is bad. Over time, you read less and less labels cause you know how many calories are in it. You know how big of a portion you can have.
  6. MOST IMPORTANT THING I HAVE LEARNED FROM COUNTING CALORIES: it works. Plain and simple.

Counting calories is tedious, but its worth the effort. If you are serious about losing weight, take a look at what you are eating and document it. You will see patterns of self destruction which you can take actions to correct. Many of the opponents of calorie counting say that if your diet is calorie counting, you will have to do it all your life. This just isn’t so. I mentioned that learn along the way. At some point, you become an expert and you don’t have write everything down.

The most important thing is to find what works for you and stick with it. Counting calories works for me.

Be well. Feel great.

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Celebrating Small Victories

About 6 months ago, I was in a big box store and took a look at the clearance section in men’s clothing department. There wasn’t much stuff for bigger guys, except a few pairs of pants. One of the pair caught my eye. They were stylish and the right price (being on clearance). I tried them on and they were a little snug, but since they were so cheap, I decided to buy them and make them my goal pants. I was going to get into good enough shape to wear them.

They hung in my closet for the last six months. I tried them on three times and they were as snug as when I first bought them. I have lost several pounds over the last three weeks so I gave them another try this morning. They fit!!! Not only do they fit, they fit great and they look great. I took another big step and wore them to work.

My attitude and outlook on the day was fantastic. I was wearing my goal pants! This is a victory! I’m pumped up, I’m motivated and focused. Today was a great day and well worth a moral celebration.

Ok…party over. Time to set a new short-term weight loss goal. I don’t need a pair of pants this time though. My mindset is different, I have more focus.

When people embark on a weight loss journey, their goal is usually for the long-term. By setting and accomplishing short-term goals, you will reach the finish line.

Be well. Feel Great.

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Change to Positive

A funny thing happened to me the other day.

On my way home from work, I began to review my day. My first thought went immediately to what tasks I didn’t accomplish. This is my usual routine: run through the things that I didn’t get done and start beating myself up about it. My mental checklist usually runs through the bad foods I consumed that day, the fact that I didn’t workout, the tasks I need to do the next day etc. But then a little spark went off that literally put a smile on my face.

I started to think about the good things that I did today. I finished at or below my alloted calorie intake for the day, I rode my bike to work, I accomplished several tasks. Of course, I still ate a few bad things, I didn’t go to the gym and I didn’t get everything done I set out to do. But I did do several great things. Yet, my mind usually focuses on the things I didn’t do, the bad food I ate and my daily failures.

It was mind clearing and uplifting to be able to think of the positive things; the things I accomplished and the good food I ate. I contribute that spark to the way I feel as a result of losing weight. There is a weird cause and effect between weight loss and a positive attitude. I also think that you need to have a positive attitude to lose weight. They are dependent upon each other.

I am going to try my best to focus on the things I did well that day and not the things I didn’t do.

Be well. Feel great.

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